this is my first time kissing or making out and I'm really confused. I don't know where to put my lips and how to move them
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Honestly, it just kinda happens. At least, it did for me.
Its fairly instinctual once it begins. Though, of course, the more you makeout with someone the more you will learn what it is they like/dislike.
Seriously though, if the guy brings his face within an inch or two of yours, you move the last inch or two to show him you're willing to kiss. Otherwise he may take it is as a sign that you don't want to.
Anyways, the guy will typically be the one to tilt his head more, and will usually place his lips first. So just respond to whatever he does(unless you want to take charge).
If you are closed mouth kissing and they open their mouths a little and lick your lips they are basically asking permission to make it an open mouth kiss. Which is oh so much better in my opinion. Don't be afraid to use your tongue, but don't just try to stick it down their throat.
Tip: Once you are open mouth kissing, try writing the alphabet with your tongue. It feels great and keeps the other person surprised(if you just continually go around in circles or what not they will get used to it). It may sound ridiculous, but it's effective.