I'm 26 and I have absolutely no problem talking to girls, I can even flirt a little, and make them laugh, however no matter how hard I try to be perfect, I can't get a girlfriend to save my life.
-My diet is perfect, I see my body looking better and healthier every day.
-I do a lot of reading so I can be more witty, have more things to talk about and be overall smarter.
-I'm adventurous, sometimes I would go to a complete different city, maybe to a concert and just party all night.
-I'm tall and handsome, no joke.
-And a bunch of other things.
But no matter how much I try to be cool, and not act wierd, I usually end up coming off odd for some reason, at least that's what I think is the problem. Like the girls would look like they think I'm OK, but eventually just nothing happens.
I should just accept that I suck, that girls don't like me and that maybe I will never have a girl to be intimate with. I should be OK with that, but is so hard to grow balls and accept it after so many years of failure, I still have the hope inside that I will find a decent girlfriend that actually likes me and wants to be with me.
I took a 2 hour walk today just to let it out and I end up crying like a baby, it's so retarded, and annoying, I should not care for this, I'm 26, I'm a man, I should be able to handle this.
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Aww . *strokes you softly*
Hey, don't say that, kitty. You do not suck!
*hugs you* That's it, let it all out.
There is one thing that seems to me to have messed you up, hun.
"Trying to be perferct" "trying to be cool."
Stop trying to be all that stuff, and just be you. It'll save you a lot of stress in the end.
Sometimes people can tell when you're not being genuinely you. (or trying to hard)
But what kind of bothered me in your questions is this, are you taking care of yourself, reading, dieting, for you?
Are are you just doing it to get other women?
Live YOUR life for you. I know it's hard sometimes, but just keep your head up. We'll get through this okay?
No, you're not a failure. You're far from it, you're just having a hard time-that's life.
You won't always be "down", keep trying, your "up" will surely come.
I believe in you! You can do it!
WOOO HOOO! ^ _ ^