Do you see a man for what he can be or will you only date a guy who is already what you want?...according to these traits would you be with this guy or is he not good enough for you?
-high school drop out (hes smart but dropped out due to a tumultuous childhood) wants to get a ged & maybe go to college someday (age 22)
-doesn't have family support, has to work for everything
-still plays video games & immature language around friends
-no car, no license, no credit, minimum wage job so mostly broke or struggling from check to check
-attractive,has good intentions, loves you more than anyone, is loyal, faithful, always positive, puts you first above everything and wants to marry you and have a family someday, great lover, protects you, isn't stingy with the little bit of money he has and will do anything in his power to make you happy
- Yes id date himVote A
- No he's not good enough for meVote B
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Girls, let me give you some gold-plated advice right now:
NEVER, EVER date a guy because you think or hope that someday he'll become what you want him to be. Chances are, the way he is today is the way he's going to be 5 or 10 or even 20 years from now, and in no event will he change FOR YOU. IF he changes, and that's a big IF, it will only be because HE wants to change.
Women just LOVE this idea that they're going to find a man who has a bunch of characteristics that she doesn't like, but that she's going to "fix" him and turn him into the man she wants him to be. That ALWAYS ends in disaster, and most often, it's the woman who loses big. I'm sure there are plenty of girls here who have learned this lesson the hard, painful way and can back me up.
Find a guy who ALREADY HAS the traits that are important to you, or you will just doom yourself to being unhappy in your relationship.0