Everything was great, it really was. He was getting so comfortable with me and I was truly happy. Then I stupidly asked him about 2 weeks ago since he lives close by if I could get his number since I'd be alone for almost 2 weeks if anything happened. He smiled and said, sure, that's fine. He was busy mowing at the time so I didn't get it but then... a week later, he was out busy again but I asked nicely if it was still OK to get the number and he went on to ask about what day everyone was leaving and ask all about the trip, as I was going away, he said, ill get it to you. Well today is the day my family leaves and I still don't have it and what's worse, I feel he is avoiding me. I truly do not get why he lied to me twice. why not just say no? I need to make it right, I miss talking to him and I am so sick over this, our friendship was going well and I messed it up. Any ideas what I can do? Its been almost 2 weeks since we had an actual talk.
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What? What? He was mowing - is this a guy who mows for a living? Maybe he just doesn't want to become Mr On-Call 24 hours unpaid handyman to some chick he occasionally talks to. I mean, you *said* that you want his number "if anything happened". You want stuff from him. You got needs. You got demands.
I mean, what relationship do you have with this guy whose number you do not even have? A pickup at a bar will at least exchange that. What on earth do you imagine that you are to him?0
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