I work with him. I poked him on Facebook and from there we started flirting. Its been a week and a half and I slept over 3 nights ago, no sex just make out cuddling, talking and some dry humping. I don't know if that made me seem easy? I'm a virgin and this was the first time I ever did anything with a guy. But he was sweet in the beginning giving me good morning and good night texts and complimenting me. I told him I liked him when I slept over and he said he really likes me (not sure if he did it to keep the mood) he told me why, cause I'm different, smart etc. I asked about his past relationships and he was open about it. But anyways. Yesterday and today he didn't text me until 9pm. He said he had work and played basket ball and I was okay with that until he asked if I could give him a bj for his birthday if I was comfortable with it, I said definitely no. And he tried to keep texting me but that question annoyed me so much I said I was tired and going to bed and he said sweet dreams. Ughh, is he using me for sexual things or does he really like me? I don't know about this dating stuff, I've never done it.
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With the dry humping, he probably hopped on that rocket and is waiting to depart from earth...now if "you're" hoping for a respectable relationship with him all hope isn't lost just yet.
You can redeem yourself by no longer engaging in sexual activity with him, but doing things like you stated really has him thinking he's going to get lucky sooner or later. If you wish to not be viewed in a sexual manner like this you have to show it.
No damn bj, my apology, that was a natural reflex.lol0