I am 22 this year and will finish college next year so now every single day I am thinking about the future.. what to do for work, how to earn more money, when to buy a house etc.
Planning for future is a good thing but when it comes to dating it just got me exhausted. I realized now I can't date a guy without thinking about the possible future, whether he will be a good husband or father etc. But this is not what I want and will make the guy feel pressured too, I just want the guy and I to have as much fun possible... what can I do?
Oh, and should I tell the guy I am seeing about this?
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..what can I do?
Well, remember that you're still in your early 20s, even though the future may seem daunting you're still at a young age :) remember when you were younger and had fun? Maybe try having the same carefree frame of mind, I believe that the future will fall in to place if it's meant to be.
...what should I tell the guy I am seeing about this?
Hmm, well, maybe before looking into the future, see if he's really the one to be. I think it'll also be fine to talk with him about your worries about the future, I'm sure if he's the one he'll comfort you and you can work it out.
I guess another main piece of advice is to not rush, society is rather pushed to being quick these days. Take your time, enjoy life and have fun :)
All the best! I hope this was helpful :)1