Has anyone ever been in a relationship where your partner loves you so much that it scares you and makes you want to run away?
I'm in a relationship with a guy for almost two years. This guy loves me so much that I'm actually scared. Sometimes I feel like I can't breath. I'm scared that he'll be destroyed if I ever leave him. He is seriously committed (as he has said many times). I'm committed, I'm not seeing anyone else, but from time to time I just want to run away.
I have met his family; he tells me about family issues; he tattooed my name on his chest; he put me as the beneficiary on his insurance; he has talked about marriage a few times but I've turned him down every single time by telling him a straight-forward "No".
I know he's nice; I know he has the qualities I'm looking for in my Mr. Right; I know I want to be with someone who really loves me, but then at the same time I'm not sure if he's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with because I know that I'm not at my happiest self, and I think I SHOULD be if I'm with the right one. I've tried to leave him before but it didn't work. I'm still with him, we are happy sometimes, but then sometimes I feel so much pressured and feel as if I'm tied down by the wrong person and I just want to run. I start questioning myself if it's just that I have commitment problems or if it's just that I don't love him enough to be with him and I feel so much guilt. Any thoughts?
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you wanna run away because he love you a lot ? why you are scared ? it's more good that your boyfriend loves you a lot,you should respect his feelings for you,and it's also your plus point,maybe their is something in you that is keep attracting him towards you,c'mon girl,you've made him crazy and now you feels that you should go away,you know the same thing happened to me,i loved a girl so much then one day she said to me that "you love me a lot but I don't love you like you do,i think I don't deserve your love" 4 years it took to recover myself,i've lost my 4 years because of that girl,I Was Like I have No Soul When She Left me Crying Behind Her ,he has crossed all limits of love for you,it's also because some people are hungry of attention,maybe you are the first person who understand his feelings that's why he loves ya very much,well it's your life but I think you should not run from him.0