So I don't mean this in a mean way I swear! Now I am not a gorgeous girl, I'm okay I think. I'm deff not skinny though and I think that may be the source of my problem. Anyways. I have a few friends who are bigger than I am and they have boyfriends. It drives me crazy! In my head I'm like what the hell am I doing wrong?! I dress nice, do my hair etc. They didn't pursue their boyfriends their boyfriends asked them out etc. so it's not like they took matters into their own hands. I'm happy for them but, I just want to meet someone too. My confidence took a blow this past weekend when my former friend got together with the guy I liked for 3 years. He knew I liked him and he still pursued her. My problem is that he kept me hanging on and then just gets with her. (she's thin) Him and I had a great connection and I can't help but think that because I'm not thin, that it determined we wouldn't be together.
So what can I do differently to start dating, I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Thank you! :)
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You know, maybe you didn't found a guy that likes your personality, traits and all.
It isn't all about looks, hair and clothes.
Don't need to change yourself to start dating. Try different places, try dancing, music classes, new places were you can meet people.
I only got my girlfriend when I was 18, when I became a musician for a drama school.
Don't change yourself, change the world you live =)0