I am totally confused at this point. Weird things keep happening to me at gym, it just seems like there's no end. It was fun at first, not going to lie, but now I feel like I'm being monitored.
First it was this: link
Then, it was one of the trainers trying to ask me out,.
Now this happens- My friend and I were doing cardio when a trainer that used to train me comes up to me to persuade me into taking more sessions with him. After he's done with that, he asks if I know some guy he's been training. Main point is the guy he trains apparently thinks I'm the prettiest girl at gym and he likes me and wants to talk to me. My trainer was literally begging me to be civil with the guy. He said "please be nice to him for me" at least 10 times. No I am not kidding. My trainer continued saying "I owe you big time if you only wave or say hi when he comes up to you" and that "he'll do anything for me. All I have to do is text and ask him." I was just like to him are you bsing, because last time I checked, the trainer wanted me. So it's not really adding up. Why would the trainer try so bad to hook me up with a guy he trains? I mean, it's OK to ask me, but not literally beg me to be civil with a stranger dude and that he'll do whatever and anything I want. Anyway, the trainer later admits the guy he trains talks about me with him and blah blah blah.
Throughout this whole conversation, the trainer says that he doesn't blame him for picking the hottest girl at gym and that he would do anything for me if I do him this favor. Oh, and he mentioned the sessios thing two more times. He claims it would be "like old times." More was said, but that's not the point now.
I'm frustrated at this point. I feel like a toy. Both those guys know exactly how uneasy I am, so I don't know what they're trying to do. I don't even know why the trainer is his wingman when he was the first to like me and stuff.
Trainer and guy friend are good friends. Guy friend told the trainer how much he liked the girl and even if trainer secretly likes you too because the guy friend mentioned it first the guy friend gets priority.?
Now trainer will sit on his own feelings and help his guy friend out. But secretly the trainer knows that guy friend probably doesn't stand a chance if he's going to be the one to initiate.
If the trainer can get you to start talking with him through texts and stuff itll open up the door for further communication down the road
"Sorry things didn't work out with my friend. Want to do a session tomorrow?"
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This has gone too far!
I would strongly suggest the next time this "trainer" nut comes over to you I would sternly tell him that "I am working out." This is not the right time for this and it is VERY INAPPROPRIATE. If you don't stop I will let the club manager know & call corporate about your behavior. I have made it clear that I am NOT interested. My friend has heard everything that you said"
You can mention that you have tried to be polite & that isn't working.
His begging & repeated attempts have crossed the line. It is inappropriate for any employee of the gym to act this way towards the members no matter if you are the most beautiful girl his friend has ever seen . A one time thing may be OK. I wouldn't put up with it any longer.2