First, is she into me? is she smiling at me? is she in my league? should I approach her?is it worth it?
then half the battle is asking for a girl's phone number, makes you feel bad and nervous, what do I say to her? how do I say it? do I sound creepy? do I look creepy? is she out of my league? and when you finally do it you either get rejected which feels bad, or you get her number which leads to more problems
once you have her number, now you have to worry about how to call or text her, how many times to do it, not too little not too much, where to go on the first date, when, how to get there, what to wear, how to treat her on the date
and if you get "lucky" and get in a relationship, now you have to worry, does she like me? does she like my looks? does she like my personality? do I smell good? do I smell bad? am I calling and texting too much? is she getting bored? do I need to act like I don't like her that much? should I be more physical with her? how do I initiate sexual contact without being creepy?
so much headache and worrying
Most Helpful Guy
The best thing you can do is hit on every woman you see until you no longer care about rejection. Once you get phone numbers/go on dates, put a minimal level of interest into the girl. Let the desperate ones chase you. Flip the script and play the game by the girl's rules, not the guy's. The key to not being frustrated as a guy is stop caring so much about women's feelings or opinions of you. Casual disrespect of women does work. You need not be a complete a**hole, but don't let girls off the hook. Let them work for you!2
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