What Phrase and techniques help you get your boyfriend to do something: Like for example do you use phrases like "I understand my part in this" and try to pretend like you're being fair or do you do try guilting him with stuff like "You never, ever listen to me" or " Remember when you_______(insert stupid thing he's done)" or are you the damsel in distress type, waterworks or do you use your feminine wiles? what's your argument style?
Guys what techniques work on you? Are you the stereotypical type who gets convinced that they are wrong after a nice hot meal and an even hotter piece of lingerie? Or does she actually have to use logic to make you realize you're wrong (if you are wrong, I know each argument is different) or convince you to take her side?
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I'll admit that I'm wrong, but she'll need to prove that I'm wrong, whether it's by logic, example, or whatever.
If a girl is trying to use her "feminine wiles" to win an argument and I realize that's what she's doing, that frustrates me, and just makes it worse for her. I find that condescending and manipulative, and I really don't like it.
I will sometimes take the position of (depending on the argument) "I still think you're wrong, but I don't care anymore so we can do it your way."
Also, for the guys where waterworks or a piece of lingere can end the argument. It's not that they all of a sudden think you're right or they're wrong, it's now they don't care about the argument and they just want it to end any way possible.0