I met this guy from an internet dating site and we hit it off. Starting hanging out almost everyday and we are physically attracted to each other. Various outings and dates so not at all a boring start. He then became distant, claims to be busy with working on the remodel for his house, which is understandable as I am doing the same. Then he asked about how we were doing and suggested we take a few weeks apart and see where "we" are. I like him a lot and was really hoping this was working. I'm concerned about what to say to him and if I should text him at all during the break as we became so close in that month. Should I be worried? How do I get him back to hanging out more often?
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What's the point of taking a few weeks apart to see where "you" (we) are when it's focused on separation and not how you are together? Twisted logic to me. If a guy did this to me I'd think he's just trying to escape. If he thought it was going to work, he should have phrased it better.
Based on what he said and because I wouldn't have invested too much time I'd leave him because his communication sucks.
If I were you I wouldn't be worried, I'd be like "okay..." and disappear on him as his suggestion "suggests". :P
Why does he have to classify it as a break? Why can't you just set up a date later on when both of you aren't busy... that shows commitment.1
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