pretty much he likes the exact same stuff as me (movies, music and overall interests) and has the same personality as me and we get along grea. he's also fiesty and opinionated which I really like in a person. he's smart and is understanding. he's also straightforward and honest
the problem is that he's not attractive, I mean I don't find him attractive at all and I would not want to date him but the more I get to know him, I know that I would have a great time with him and we'd get along perfectly. he's 3 years older than me bit I just can't get myself to like him more than a friend (not that I wanna) but this situation bugs me
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I have heard of people who are not attracted at first developing a good relationship in the long run, but if you are not looking for THE ONE right now, I would say you can't MAKE yourself be attracted to him.
Maybe you could TRY dating him, but you might risk hurting him if you eventually found out you can't stay.
Also, maybe you find him too predictable because he is too much like you and you need or want someone who is more different to you in at least some ways so you can expand your horizons and try new things.0