Is there any one who knows or is cold to people they like and care about? If so, why? I don't get it if they know others like them and care for them as well.
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It's very simple but not easily explained. I for one am the person you are talking about. I work in the medical field and see death on a daily basis. To my patients I have been told that I am a very loving a companssionate person. To my family I am cold and distant. The rub is that when I see death on a daily basis that I don't want the closeness connection with my loved ones. Simply put it's to painful to think about the pain that I will endure or they will endure at the time of a death. So I put my emotions in check when I am with my family. Not that I don't love them... but it's easier to be distant and love than to wear my heart on my sleave. God knows I've cried a million tears for others loved ones over the years when they died.. I didn't even know them prior to the 911 call. I know it doesn't make sense and I may not be articulating my position very well. But with family its easier to love and be distant than to love and know the pain that is enevitable for a initmate relationship.0
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