So my boyfriend and I celebrated our 2 year anniversary on Wednesday...well the day right after it I messed up big time and cheated on him. I have never ever cheated on anyone and prided myself of that. I made out with a guy that I used to work with. I know some people don't consider this real cheating, but I do and I know my boyfriend does. It was a drunk hookup. I told my boyfriend right when I got home what had happened.
He told me that I broke his heart, but is kinda just dropping it and is nowhere near as angry as I thought he would be. I can't stop crying cause I feel like absolute crap. The main reason I feel this way is because I didn't try to stop him from kissing me, and we repeatedly made out throughout the night. I really just do not know what to do, and have NO clue why my boyfriend is being so calm about this. Am I not as into this relationship with my boyfriend as I thought I was?
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Most likely he knows you already realize what you did was really bad and see no need to reiterate that.
Either that or he feels, while it was bad, its not that super bad. It was just some quick slip up while drunk, since you only kissed him.
I will say this though, my guess is he doesn't know you did it multiple times throughout the night. He would probably be a lot more mad if he knew that.
I wouldn't say you are necessarily not as into the relationship, I would honestly say, its just because you are a female. Contrary to popular belief, women actually are lead more by their genitals than men. When a guy cheats, its because most likely he made a conscious choice to do so. Girls on the other will do it then look back and act like they were in some trance. When a girl gets emotional and turned on by a guy, she just can't hold herself back, hence the reason women are more likely to cheat. They lack the ability to have their logical brain override what they're emotions and genitals want.2