Because I know that girls get all mushy and think about them all the time while listening to sappy love boyband songs, but what are guys like when away from their girlfriend?
I mean, BEYOND the sexual part, what do they think about when they think of the girl? Is she the first thing that comes to mind when they wake up, Do certain things remind them of their girl or make them think about her? Do they feel the same way as girls do but just don't show it?
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I can't answer for other guys, and I haven't been in a relationship yet, but I know that I am a natural romantic at heart. When I fall in love with someone, I think about them a lot, and it seems that just about everything reminds me of her. Maybe I'm just really in touch with my feminine side, but I believe that many guys really do think about their girlfriends much of the time, despite what they may tell you. Since admitting to romantic or sentimental emotions seems to be a very un-manly trait (according to popular media, anyway), most guys will swear up and down that they were thinking about football or something instead, rather than be ridiculed for being a sissy or something. lol I actually do think that women and men think far more alike than the world would have you believe, but because it's not popular to admit it, you won't hear it very often. We have deep emotions, too, but we bury them under the guise of being "cool". lol In some ways, I think we guys are actually MORE sensitive, which is one reason we are so reluctant to open up about our feelings. It's safer that way. ;)0