I was absolutely fiiine all my life until I dated a guy for a while who, as I later found out, was still seeing his ex! I felt awful. Why would someone "cheat" on a new, attractive fun girl?! I felt tiny and in the dumps.
Apparently I still can't get over it, not the specific situation I mean but the fact that, in my head, I can't trust anyone again or enjoy my dates cos I'm always thinking that the guy is here just to get laid or mess with me somehow. Weird how I focus on this bad experience and not the other good ones.
Any tips/stories you wanna share? I really need to feel like I can trust my dates and enjoy them. To feel like there are people with good intentions:) Thanks
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No... like Sir Winston Churchill said, If the present tries to sit in judgement of the past it will lose the future. And he knows a thing or two about past failures.1