Here's the story met this guy online on one of those free dating sites.
He told me he was out of business from another state, and I'm on the east coast. He told me he's not looking for anything serious as he will leave in 8 months or so. Things got sexual 'sexting' after a few days of talking, we started sexting a lot. Saw a few pics of him even send one pic of myself wearing a bra (don't judge me). He's really hot and I could not help it. Then I told him I didn't want to hook up and come to his hotel room (first I said I would). He knows I'm a virgin. Then I called him a once or twice the convos were short because he was busy and he didn't return my call. I called 2 days later and asked why he hadn't called, he said he forgot (he texted that). doesn't' carry on a convo again told me he has to go and I should call him later in the day. I didn't, I text him again to have a convo he isn't responsive. So then I suggest we meet up, I can see he was online but didn't respond. So I text "I'm not saying we can't do other things;)" and he texts back IMMEDIATELY and is like "sure?"
Honestly in my 20s never had boyfriend, been kissed etc. He's good looking and actually found me attractive and so I feel kind of attached. Should I meet him for drinks later in the week or leave this guy alone?
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THAT's a PLAYER. A real definition of a player is THAT. He will be in and out of your life. He will have sex with you only, and NEVER be attached emotionally. Do you want that? You can get that in a bar too. This is the typical heartbreaker. You will think of the guy who took your virginity all your life. Are you sure you want it to be a maniac player business man? It's up to you. But you can also go to A-N-Y bar, meet a guy, give him your number and then have sex with someone more meaningful... its up to you... but he will leave you scarred for a long time... imo0
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