A guy friend text me to have a 3 sum with his guy friend .
I said no to him so he said
"I'm sorry about sending you that text message . It was meant as a joke and I did not mean to offend you. I regret it and will not make jokes like that again.
I think it is not a joke .
why does he say that?
does he really think I would believe what he said?
is he trolling?
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Your reaction here exemplifies why it is so difficult to talk to each other. You choose to get upset and angry just because of a simple question. What do you expect? That he should telepatically know the answer to every possible thing you believe and feel and only ask about things that you allready are favourable towards? "If he trully loved me, he would know"? - Bullsh*t. One knows because one asks. And as long as the question is put out in a polite manner, one also answers in a polite manner.
If he was serious or not doesn't matter here. He offered the "joke" solution so that you could save face - even if you did get upset or offended by the question. Grab it and go with it.0