In person he's lovely, he says he likes being with me and that he's in love with me. But then when I'm away from him he sucks at texting, 2hr late responses, and he is the worse plan maker I have ever met.
I want a guy who can just come over at night as a surprise and stay until 10pm, but he's always leaving really soon too.
What can I do?
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Have you mentioned what you'd like from him? If you don't say anything he's going to assume nothing is wrong. You don't have to make it a big deal or anything, but casually mention sometime that you'd like to spend more time together when you do see each other, and you'd really appreciate it if he texted you sometimes. If he doesn't get the hint then be more direct, and if there's still no effort to change then maybe he's not for you.1