A few months ago a met a server at a bar/restaurant I go to a lot.I gave him my # he said he would call me but never did, never saw him since.So recently I went to a bar with my friend and he was there.He smiled waved and then came and gave me a hug.He mentioned that he hasn't seen me in a long time and we just made small talk.So then he is telling me and my friend all night how gorgeous and beautiful I am.then we danced and got drunk and just having a good time.So as its time to go he invites is back to his house and we continue drinking there.We start making out,my friend passes out and we went to his room and hooked up ALL night.After I go to check on my friend and when I go back to his room to get ready he says "your not leaving are you come back to bed" so I do and he holds and cuddles me until the morning.When I get up to leave he tells me how good I look in the morning and then gives me a hug and a kiss and we said goodbye.This has me confused.The cuddling the hug the kiss goodbye?yet we didn't exchange #'s.Is this normal when you hook up?Does this mean he was interested or just being polite?its been a few weeks, should I go to his work and see if anything is there or just give it up?
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He's one of those passionate guys instead of a selfish or rude guy when it comes to sex. This could easily make you think there is something more because he feels tender and warm instead of acting like a Jersey shore douche after a hookup, but don't take it for more than a physical act. You did not exchange contact info so it was nothing beyond that. Don't show up at his job, you don't wanna look psycho1