Hi guys. I'm a man. I saw this nice girl at the gym, I smiled at her and she smiled back. It so happened we left the gym at the same time and I said hello and we got talking. I made her laugh and she was asking me questions about what I do etc and we hit off really good so I got the feeling she was interested and she was - I knew it but I blew it?
I asked her if she was single? she kind of blushed, then I asked married? she kind of blushed and didn't answer. Then I asked her out and she turned me down for being too straight forward.
She said "your too straight forward" I said, I speak my mind - if I like someone I let them know that's just how I am. She replied I'm sorry but your too straightforward " She said see you around and we parted.
I'm really disappointed. She was French and said she's not used to guys being like this?
I really like her - what should I do? forget about her or if I see her again go and speak? What should I say? I can't believe she can be so shallow? its not like I said I want marry her or something?
Any advice appreciated.
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She lied. She just wasn't interested in you enough...and when you asked if she was single,or married...you turned her off. Now had her interest level in you been high enough...what you said wouldn't have been a deal killer anyway. You did good until you asked about her relationship status. You didn't need to ask her that...and it wasn't any of your business. All you had to do is say," Hey, its been really nice talking with you, by the way, what's your phone number?" Then if she wasn't interested, or was in a relationship, then she would have told you then. Asking the questions you did could have made you seem weak...like you wanted to make sure it was safe before you asked for her number. This is an easy fix man...good luck in the future.0