I went on my first date ever on Monday night. We ended up making out for 4 hours. We met online and started talking last Tuesday. On Saturday he told me 'I love you, I wanna spend the rest of my life with you, I wanna marry you', and in the heat of the moment I said the same things. After our date on Monday, I realized I didn't feel the same way about him. So I decided today (Wednesday) to break up with him, and tell him I didn't feel the same way about him. He told me I used him as an experiment. I wasn't trying to, I genuinely thought I had feelings for him, but after I started thinking about it I realized I was trying to force the attraction. I told him he deserved someone better, someone who wouldn't have second thoughts about loving him. I feel absolutely terrible for letting things get out of hand like this. I myself have been used so many times before, and I couldn't live with myself knowing that I used him and strung him along. How did he know he 'loved/loves' me? Was I using him? Was I experimenting with him? I just had this uneasy feeling about the whole thing, since Saturday when he said he loved me. I feel so broken, and terrible for hurting him, it was never my intention to hurt him. :'(
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He didn't know what he was saying when he said he loved you. It's not possible. He barely knows you. If he said "you make me hard" that would be believable. He's just confusing lust with love.
Don't worry about it. Just chalk it up to experience and move on. He'll be fine. He's probably trolling for other women online right now.1