lets say you and a guy have been flirting a bit and your pretty interested in him and want something more but one night your out with your friends and he takes an interest in your friend over you and hits it off really well with her. Your friend has no idea you and him sorta had a thing so it's completely innocent for her to respond. Would you let your friend keep going along with it or would you pull her aside and stop her? even if you did ask her to stop and he kept hitting on her big time and she was genuinely interested would you be angry with her? Give me your opinions ladies.
I am not the male in this situation I'm just wondering haha, I have done it before though and it caused a split in a group of friends for which I now feel terrible about.
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I'd be fine with it.
People like to flirt - so me flirting with a guy is nothing concrete; even if maybe I'd like it to me. It's not my friend's fault that he took more of a liking to her than he did me in the end; and honestly - clearly if he's interested in my friend and not me then it never would have worked out anyway.
So yeah - fine with it. As long as we're talking just harmless flirting and chatting beforehand. Otherwise I might have to question whether he's a bit of a 'player' and warn her off; but only if his tactics before had led me to believe so. Generally - I'd just leave them be.1