Say there's a beautiful girl who isn't very smart and doesn't get any of your jokes but still laughs at them. You have a few common interests, and she's lots of fun to be around. But it's hard to talk about things that matter with her, because you disagree with her on so many of her views. She's very shallow and can be arrogant, but she can be very sweet at times. She is very talkative and likes to talk about funny stories that happened to her, so she can be very funny and outgoing. She is more adventurous and has many dreams for her future. She has a better fashion sense than the second girl.
Then there's a girl who is more reserved, but is smart and can keep up with you on intellectual topics and shares the same opinion about topics you care about. You are her twin in a guy version and she shares the same interests, can understand all your witty remarks, and makes you laugh with her own. You can talk about anything with her, but is quieter so there can be silence oftentimes. She can open up with time but it takes a while. She is sweet and listens to you more than expecting you to listen to her all the time. She is not as pretty as the first girl. You feel comfortable around her, and she wants a guy who she can be herself with.
Which girl would you rather marry?
Most Helpful Guy
The second girl. I have an utter dislike for arrogance or complete shallow views. Also, if it's someone I have no problem talking too and I can laugh and talk with her, ultimately that's the girl who I would want to be with. In the end, the looks of a person fade with time. If I can meet someone who I actually enjoy spending time with, I would be a fool to let her go.0