There's a guy who I do like and he likes me a lot more then I like him, we have a good time together, but there are things he does and says that I do not like and I try to look past them because most of the time he treats me like gold and he can be a lot of things I like too. But when he does and says the things that annoy me, I get reminded again of why I'm not sure if I want to be exclusive with him. These are things apart of his personality too that can't really be changed. I don't know if it sounds mean but is it normal to get that feeling anoint someone your dating? He likes me so much I just don't want to hurt him, what do you do?
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Sounds to me like you're not really that compatible.
No matter how much this guy likes you - these things are probably always going to annoy you - and over time just get on your nerves more through no fault of his own. And you'll probably react to that at some point in an way which is out of proportion to his actions.
Honestly you have to options - decide you can't cope and end things now.
Or talk to him about it - but it depends what these things are. They might be things he can't really control so he might not be able to change them.
The way I see it; being annoyed by silly little things early on with someone is kind of our subconscious trying to find an 'out' of a situation which we don't really want to be in but on paper looks great - i.e he's a nice guy who really like you and you have a good time with. But sometimes there just needs to be more than that. So if you're not really feeling it - better to end things now.0