I was dating this guy for a few weeks and he wanted to go all the way but I didn't because he and I didn't know each other that well yet and I told him that. He immediately moved away from me and I got pretty hurt by that so I shut down (its a reaction that I'm working on stopping) and he walked outside to smoke after a few minutes without saying a word so I walked outside to leave and we said bye but he didn't walk me to my car like he has always done. We haven't hung out in a few days which is VERY odd because we always spend every night or so together after work (we work at the same place). So does this mean he isn't going to ask me out anymore because I wouldn't go all the way?
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What this is is a big red flag for someone who only cares about getting in your pants and if you want a relationship like that go right on ahead but if you're looking for something serious then forget him because even if he does come back back to you there will always be that nagging voice in your head asking if he really likes me for me. It might hurt but its better to be a little hurt now then a lot hurt later.0
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