Is it? I mean I am digging two guys at once. Dating neither but flirting with both...I am not sure If they know each other, But would it be bad to tell both of them I liked them?
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this kind of thing happens all the time. Often people will have more than one person they are sweet on while they are single, and sometimes struggle with deciding who to choose. Ummm, I wouldn't say you were obligated to tell either of them since they don't know each other. But I think you could if you wanted to. I know I'd take the news just fine. I imagine a fair number of other guys would to. There could be some extra sensitive or insecure or jealousy-prone guys who wouldn't take the news very well, but even then you'd find out if they were the jealous or insecure type, so it might be for the best anyway.
but as long as you're not serious yet with either of them I don't think you should feel obligated to mention it yet if you don't want to.1