Okay this has to do with my problem with getting a girl and also I have never had a relationship, so the thought of one actually scares me a bit. This is due to am how could I make sure it would work and will I be a responsible in other words a good man for the girl I am with. Firstly when I see a girl that I find attractive, I don't approach her due to not knowing what to say to her and actually "create attraction." Even when I do get her number it comes down to what do I say (because I hate talking on the phone), and how to not get rejected like I did with all the others girls I went on one or two dates with.
An example I recently got this beautiful girls number but I just can't seem to man up and ask her out for the same reason (or excuses whatever you see it as) that I have listed. I am nervous that it will go the normal direction and I will get rejected or if I actually make it and how to be man enough to take care of her and keep out all the other pursuers.
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I'm not sure.
I was washing dishes in the kitchen sink, there are windows looking onto this level of the building,
for some reason when I was looking outside the UPS guy was waving at me so I just waved back at him...then he started doing a goofy dance in the parking lot...
I could say "don't take it so seriously" but I'm not sure that would help you.
I think it's great that you are dating...and maybe this is exactly what you are supposed to be doing right now...dating.
Okay, I had this job where I had to call a many people just to get a small number of participants to say yes, it was very much a numbers game...some people will say no, some people will be maybe's, some people will say yes...
I think you are putting a lot of pressure on yourself maybe? See the thing is you can't make up her mind for her.
Maybe don't think of it as rejection...when I went on dates that didn't work out I don't even use that term because the truth is we were not always a good match personality wise.0