I don't know about this new generation but it seems as if the WOMEN chase more now a days. I wasn't taught like that and I stand by it I was taught not to contact 1rst, initiate anything 1rst and it has helped me weed out all the douchebags in my life it really has! Lets face it guys have a higher sex drive and in my eyes he has to earn it. There's a saying " a man that finds a wife finds a good thing". Yes there have been the downs of not chasing like I can't call and text when I have feelings for somebody and let them know that or "im chasing" . I want to know how can I use the old school way of not chasing a man but yet letting them know how I feel I get bashed for it all the time but I'm not changing it! so please only good things.
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Traditionally in most cultures that's how it is, and before that, how it is in the animal kingdom especially among mammals.
Thanks partially to PC and hanging threat of harrassment lawsuits, as well as media bashing of masculinity, men today are more reluctant to pursue a woman they are interested in. This has compelled some women out of frustration to decide to go after the guy themselves. Old school teaches that if a man is pursued, he loses interest, feels put off, feels unmanly, yadda yadda yadda. My take is if a man turns down a woman he thinks is very attractive, very cool, solely on the basis that his animal instincts weren't in play, he's not worthy of having her.
Therefore, go for it.0