Ok, so I have a HUGE problem. The guy I like has told me multiple times he likes me too, but now he's saying he thought he did, but he doesn't because he's not ready and is afraid. He's not ready for a relationship, & I get that. I'm not forcing him, I told him I'd wait til' he's ready. but he doesn't think it's okay to like each other and still be friends in the mean time. I don't know what to do. Is there any way I can convince him? ugh
Is it OK to like each other and still be friends in the meantime?
What Guys Said 2
The best romantic relationships come out of friendship. You can not have a great romantic relationship with someone who is not you friend.
Any relationship that doesn't come out of friendship is usually a business transaction.
You have to ask yourself, if he liked me once and now he doesn't how long am I going to give him to heal or decide if he likes someone else more than me?
If I were in your shoes, I would convince him that you are a great person by dating other guys. Show him you are desired by other guys and just maybe his jealous side will bring him to his senses. If you pretend to really have a great time with the other guy and can't wait to see the other guy it might just get your special someone to commit to you.
Remember, he doesn't think it's okay to like each other and still be friends. So it must be okay to date other people. This works to your advantage. Use his words to win his heart.
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