So I was talking to a girl, and an interesting conversation came about. I am a tall athletic TONED guy, I don't work out anymore I just run. So she had seen what I looked like without a shirt on before, and I've seen her in a bikini.
So we got on the subject of dating and she said that she liked muscular bigger guys because she doesn't like a guy that is skinnier than her.
I was kinda shocked because I understand that, but rather her get skinnier she expected guys to be bigger. So is this a fair thing for her to have guys change rather than her? Tell me what you think, I'm hoping for some good discussions!
And I never said anything about her weight or that I wouldn't date her, because I would so date her, but its sounds like she wouldn't date me, just looking for some thoughts on the subject, Thanks!
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you are confusing now, before you said that you would so date her now you say that you won't date her and that her tummy is fat? I guess you have answered your own question lol.. wait what exactly is your question?
hmm.. "Is it fair for girls to expect guys to fix their insecurities?"
I wouldn't want my man to make me feel like sh*t, and I would not want him to feel like sh*t either.
i like to tell my man how much I think he is attractive, that way he knows how I feel about him, when he gets ready in the morning I say " damn you are sexy" when he takes his shirt off I stare at him so hard and he sees it, the lust in my eyes and it makes him smile. My man is definitely not insecure about his appearance and I make sure that he isn't.
i don't know if this is the response you were looking for but you should be with someone who makes you feel good about yourself, not insecure.1