I have this girl who is probably going to be my girlfriend. She is really cute and cool and everything, but she comes across as someone who hasn't had a lot of experience with guys. For one thing I felt kind of awkward kissing her cause I always did it with tongue with my last girlfriend and I kind of don't think she knows to do it. Should I bring it up? and how?
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Here is the thing.
So in your question you are saying how to make her better at kissing. See, she has to want to be better at it herself. You can't really make her better. You can help her to become better by coaching her in a nonverbal way which is pretty much by showing her. So maybe you are just expecting too much too soon with this girl. Could be that she is just warming up to you and the idea since it's still pretty earlier on for you two and she doesn't have much experience yet.
Think the best thing for you to do is try to improve your own kissing skills as well, because hey, there is always room for improvement right.
Just keep working with her unless she gives you signs that she isn't interested. Maybe she just feels shy or awkward or something.
And it always goes without saying make sure you brush your teeth really well for her, also take your toothbrush and brush your tongue just in case she doesn't like your breath so much.
She isn't going to be EXACTLY like your last girlfriend. Maybe you felt like you were a good kisser with your past girl friend but what if you really were not?
Sometimes you just have to start over and figure out what to do with the new person, don't try to make her act like the last one you had.
So in short, you could say "Do you want me to show you how to french kiss"?
I MEAN ITS A SEXY SEXY QUESTION...
That way you give her a chance to say something about how she feels about it. Maybe she will say she doesn't like it, maybe she will say she does like but she doesn't know how..
Just say it to her in a nice flirtatious way...see what she says in response then go from there.
Don't tell her she is a bad kisser or that she isn't doing it the way you want her to because it's unromantic and unmanly. Especially since she is inexperienced.
Do you see where I'm going with all of this.