OK I started talking to a guy about less than a month ago and we hit it of he has introduced me to his family and friends and he calls me his boo and one of his friends asked him if I was his girlfriend and he said yes she's my girlfriend and he also has a picture of me and himself on Facebook, but here is where it gets weird lol at first he would text me and be very flirty and would text me often that's before we had sex on the fourth date that night we cuddled and watched TV and I had to leave since it was late and he always tells me to text him when I get home so I did so the following week he does text me but its not flirty anymore just normal texts like hi or what he is doing? can someone explain this to me why isn't he texting like before? after the fourth date I saw him again and then we went to one of his friends surprise party and that where his friend asked if I was his girlfriend. that same night we had sex again and everything was fine but his texting is not the same? is he losing interest?
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Texting (and most other forms of communication) for guys is goal-based, not really for enjoyment. He texted you in the beginning because he was trying to get the relationship going, but now it IS going and you are spending time together in person, so he no longer feels the need to text you all the time. This is NORMAL and fine. Texting is horrible anyway, and you should focus on spending as much time as you realistically can with him in person, and do your communicating then, face-to-face.
And if it's important, and you aren't around each other, CALL HIM, don't text.2