So this guy basically led me on, we texted for months and Haven't seen each other in a while. He basically told me he was interested and texted everyday. He attempted going on.dates with me but he was too busy with school & work, now he has 2jobs. Anyways, out of nowhere he stops texting me and its been past one week with no notice from him. I texted and no reply =\ Is it possible that he just doesn't want to go to the next level? (date). Or he was never truly.interested? But then again, why text for more than 6month, flirt and say you eventually wanna date?
Why is he being hot and cold?
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"he was too busy with school & work, now he has 2jobs. Anyways, out of nowhere he stops texting me and its been past one week with no notice from him. I texted and no reply"
It's likely he lost interest or something else came along. Even if he is busy with something, he will make time for downtime, aka doing things he wants to do to relax. Now, talking with someone you like is fun, correct? Wouldn't he take a minute out of his day to text you and say "Hey how are you?" or "Sorry I didn't reply right away, but I would like to see you on x day" if he really was romantically interested in you?
Sorry. :( This has happened to me too and it sucks. The guy even told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend. Then he did almost the same exact thing you described to let me down easy. It's an improper form of communication. Find someone who will out time aside and make you a priority.0
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