It seems pretty common that whenever a girl texts a guy first for about 3 times in a row, she feels like she is annoying him. Why is that girls? I really doubt that any guy feels annoyed whenever a girl texts him. Why is that girls? Guys, do you ever get annoyed when a girl texts you alot? How do you handle it?
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I've always been 'one of the boys', so I know from observation that a lot of guys DO get irritated when a girl texts them, if they don't care much about talking to her. I don't register as a 'girl' to them so much, so I hear everything. They don't censor themselves around me.
I'll text once, and if I don't get a response in a few hours or so, I might send one more. But if they don't answer after that, I leave the ball in their court because they're either busy or don't want to talk to me. If they do want to talk to me, they'll hit me back later when they CAN/want to. I probably won't initiate next contact, unless it's been several days and I have a pressing reason to.3