Met a girl talked and hung out for a week went on a date last night. It went well but I wanted to take her mini golfing (did not tell her about it) and she said her and her friends were going out to the movies. Her female friend (room mate) and football players. She said she didn't think I wanted to go to the movie because I didn't know the freshmen guys. I was like oh OK so after eating ice cream in her dorm she walked me to my car and said good night and hugged. didn't get a text afterward or anything. I think she lost interest.
Don't think she likes me after first date?
What Girls Said 1
DIdn't she say she was going to go to the movies after hanging out with you?
It was probably late or she hung out with her friends afterward.
It's still the A.M.. Text her later today and tell her if she's interested in going mini golfing with you.
I don't understand why you (or any guy) would plan a surprised date but not tell the girl. Then, ya'll get sad about it (and think she may of lost interest) when she ended up having other plans.0
What Guys Said 1
Nah, she may have just had plans that night; but still hung out with you anyway and was going to catch them at the movies. I would stay a bit distant and play it cool; see if she contacts you in the next few days. I would lay off contact for 4 days at the very least, then maybe ask her out again.0
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