How does dating a person with children change the playing field?
I've got zero children, am even a little freaked out about people my age having children (I know maybe it seems immature) but it's just the way I am.
Are single parents better off dating other single parents because they have that in common with one another?
A guy wanted to start dating me but he had a few months old baby. I just couldn't get over it for some reason. I lied to him at first and told him I was okay with it but then I realized I really wasn't so I never did end up dating him seriously.
Is it weird that I don't adore children? I'm female and I feel that it just makes me an oddball.
Are there any good guys that actually want to date women that don't want children...or will it be the proverbial so called "douches" that are the only ones left over?
I know it's weird but I don't feel old enough to have children and be a parent so when I see other people my age who do I'm sort of startled.
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it's perfectly normal. raising a child is a huge responsibility. no one wants it suddenly thrust on them, especially when it isn't even their kid.
that said, single parents need sex too. A FWB relationship is ideal with someone who doesn't also have children, I'd imagine. That way you both avoid the awkward expectation of helping raise the kids together, but still get your physical needs met. Plus, because he's a single parent, you know he is pretty much at the bottom of the "desirable" list, so when I say "friends with benefits" I mean to emphasize the word "friend." You may not find a more loyal friend in any lifetime.2