I dated this girl for about a month, went out 3 times, really had chemistry and share much of the same views on life and have many of the same likes (music, books, films, etc.). She was brought up in a pretty conservative family and it's the reason I only hugged her at the end of each date. After a month, I mentioned I like hearing from her (her replies) and that she should feel at ease in initiating contact if so inclined. I brought it up in a joking manner, saying she didn't have to wait 'til I was dying to reach out, which she took kindly to, but still didn't initiate in the next 2 weeks. She's always receptive and seems genuinely excited when I do text (using '!' and referring to me by my first name a lot), but am not going to contact again to test if she reaches out. Your thoughts?
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Oh my gosh this is theee most frustrating thing! It always sucks being the one that initiates contact every time! Tell her, that it'd be nice to hear from her, i.e her starting the conversations..or saying maybe you should text me when you want to have coffee or something like that..0