So I am 21 dating an 18 year old. He was pretty manipulative at first like he did not tell me he was 18 and would literally tell me anything to get me to come hang out with him. He seems to be moving very fast. After two months of talking or dating you could say, he wanted me to go to his family's beach house in another state as his girlfriend. So I went, but some time after, when he was going through his photos on his laptop, I happened to see him with two other girls that he had taken to that beach house (at separate times). To me it seemed like he could not handle being alone and just manipulated me into going there to make himself feel better. He did start to say I love you after 3 months, which I was not ready to say, it seemed clingy to me. It has now been 6 months of us being together and he is just always jealous of what I do like every little thing, but he can never put himself in my shoes. I was pretty pissed when I saw that he still had pictures of his ex from a year ago on his laptop labeled "she's a dumb bitch." Well I feel like he can be controlling by how he always tells me his undying love for me like everyday. Maybe he really is in love with me, but I can't help but feel he is immature and that he is confused about what love is. I should add that he finished high school in three years and is more mature than other guys his age, but he still has his moments. What is anyone's take on this?
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first of all finishing high school in 3 years doesn't mean that he's mature. and then from what you've said and as you mentioned it yourself, he is totally immature and doesn't know what he wants and what he feels. in addition and at the same time today guys at this age are not total innocent. they know how to lie and how to play to get the girls to bedroom. so this guy too is a mixture of both( like all the teenagers ). he takes an illusion and lust as love and at the same time he craves for girl's body.0