So the thing is like there's this guy who I love, but I don't want to be with him but all I want is for him to be there, like be my friend and be able to hang and talk to me, but we dated before and now we meet regularly and we have sex but I don't think we will date,
I'm ready to move to another guy and really date someone but I want him in my life as well, kinda like a rachel ,ross thing :S
I don't think he is ready to date anyone cause he is in college etc but I know he likes me at heart to , I don't want to wait for him cause he does take me for granted, I'm just so confused and have mixed emotions and I have stronger feelings for him than he has for me :( I just don't know anymore..
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This big confused mess is why you shouldn't sleep with people you aren't in a relationship with.
You are keeping him around with sex, but you don't want a relationship with him, but want him around to be your "emotional boyfriend" when you need him, and can only make that happen with sex. No wonder you are screwed up emotionally.
Bottom line: if you aren't going to be in a relationship with this guy, you need to let him go. If he won't stay around and be your friend without sex, then you need to accept that and let him go. Besides, if you get into a relationship with another guy, it's HIS job to be there for you and do those things for you anyway.
You can't have it both ways.0