i'm 16 and never had a girlfriend. I'm nothing special and lets just say I'm not the greatest looking guy out there. my friends joke with me and say even Hitler had a girlfriend and stuff and I laugh. people say I need to get a girlfriend but I just say I'm not ready. a girl asked me out but I never wanted to meet her so I didn't. what should I do ?
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It sounds like your fears lie within yourself and you are holding yourself back from making progress.
If it is a girl you want, then telling yourself that you are not ready is just an excuse. The same goes for when you didn't go out with the girl who asked you out. At your age, much of it comes down to interacting with girls and getting experience so you know what to do in the future.
However, that means you have to make a conscious decision and decide that you want to interact and socialize with girls. You are the only person who can help you get what you truly want and desire.
I used to be the same way and for some reason I would not socialize or interact with girls and told myself that I was too young or not ready. Eventually I realized that if I wanted to be friends with girls or interact with girls I would need to break out of my shell and make an effort to progress with them.
Only you can make yourself ready and get the girlfriend you want.
Here is a great resource for some teen advice that I think can help you break out of your shell along with proper motivation: