hi I am a 35 year old single dad of two my kids. they keep asking when I am going to get a girl friend and get married again. I am really tired of this question and I yelled and I told them I gave up looking. which I did if I can't get the girls I am attracted to to give me the time off day I am not going to try any more. I just stay in the house either laying on the couch in bed set at my desk watching TV I have always been a very shy nice guy but have grown tired of rejection. if I start getting the the feeling for adult intimacy I just get plowed that help me for get about what I can't have and pass out. I can't make any one want to be with me so I don't try I even tried on line dating sent thousands of replays and never hard back I did it for 5 years.
PS there mom has very little to to do with them how do tell them they will never have a mother again my boy is 6 and my girl is 7.
i don't know were else to look only hang up I have is I have to be older I do wish I had a big family that just a pipe dream now I am not the best looking or the smartest
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"I told them I gave up looking. which I did if I can't get the girls I am attracted to to give me the time off day." I understand this, attraction is absolutely necessary, for both you AND her. Is it possible that the girls you find attractive enough to date, are girls that are, comparatively speaking, more attractive than you? If that's the case, you can hardly blame them since you don't like girls on the level as you either. Your only options are to give girls like you a chance, or improve yourself.0