I am very confused. I am a senior in high-school and have never had a girlfriend or been on a date, I know, pretty sad. Anyway on to the problem. A completely gorgeous girl that goes to me high school messaged me over Facebook about two weeks ago. She is a freshman but she is 16 and I am 17, we both just had our birthdays so there isn't that much of an age difference. she messaged me asking if I was going to a party that weekend, I was planning on it so I offered her a ride. she accepted. the party never happened because of police but we hung out that night anyway. I had a great time and I started to liker her. the next day I went over to her house around noon and we hung out there while her parents weren't home, then I went home before her parents got there. after I left around five she started texting me and eventually said that she was surprised I hadn't tried anything such as making out. I had no idea she felt this way so I went back to her house at around six. on the way there I texted my friend with my concerns, some of which were her being a freshman, which was not that big of a deal but it was something that was kind of nagging at me. another was that I had no idea how to make out or even be intimate, he gave me some tips about that. but he was also concerned about the whole "freshman" thing. however the more I thought about it the less I cared and right before I reached her house I decided that I didn't care if she was a freshman, if I like her I liker her. when I got there we talked, hung out, and then we were in her back yard when I wrapped my arms around her waist, and clasped my hands behind her back and pulled her into a more than friendly hug. I started to kiss her neck and then her mom came outside so we stopped. then we went inside to hang out again I kept teasing her and touching her more and more and she seemed to like it, she was smiling and giggling. and then she picked up my phone and saw the texts exchanged between my friend and i. she was upset about the whole freshman/senior situation, even though at that point I didn't care at all and I told her that I didn't care and that it doesn't matter. she then went on to say she just wanted to be friends, this absolutely crushed me, I didn't sleep that night and I cried allot, can you blame me though? it was my first chance at a relationship and I had screwed it up. the next day I somewhat got over it so I was texting her later that night when she asked me if there were any girls I liked. I halfheartedly said that there was one in one of my classes that I thought was kind of cute. she then got all snappy with her texts, I asked why and she said that she is jealous and actually does like me, but still just wants to be friends. I told her that if we like each other we should turn it into something more. long story short this has happened the past three days in a row, once with another girl and two days ago and yesterday with one of her friends that I texted for a couple hours and th
Does she want a relationship? :(
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You can finish the question by updating the question, High-school girls specifically don't know what they want, and if they did they won't tell you ever. Stop texting her for awhile and see if she texts you, then be a little flirtatious and see if she throws it back at you.
Also, Tell her that you think what she said about just being friends was Bull shi*, see if that sparks any talk from her.0
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