Ok, I have been single for going on a year now and I have been talking to many different girls who at first seem cool but after awhile it's like the coolness kind of wear off. So, I tried online dating.
I've met this really pretty girl online and she likes me. I like her, she's very smart with a huge smile. And we actually talk about things! OK, so we exchange pics and stuff and of course, you're going to send your best pics each time and I also have my best pics up on the site.
And so, she tells me I'm handsome which is cool but I don't necessarily feel I'm that. It's good to know, I've been told I was cute many time but IDK. I guess being that fat kid growing up has really wore on my self esteem, and getting dumped. So, I showed my mom pics that I sent the girl and I'm do I really look like that and she's like yea but for some odd reason I don't see it in the mirror.
Anyway, this beautiful girl and I are planning on meeting but I'm kind of nervous because what if she thinks I don't look like my pics, even though they are recent, like it would really suck because after talking to her on the phone for weeks and getting to know her, I really like her and she tells me she likes me too and I can really tell she does because she tells me she is afraid another girl will come along and maybe I like her better or what not. I'm 21 and she's 19, about to be 20. And she is so smart. I love it! Advice please.
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Whoa. The online game! I have been there, thankfully I have never had a bad reaction to me. I cannot say that about my reactions to men though.
Chances are you look great. I used to date a guy who was by far the sexiest man I have ever gone out with, and he did not think so -he was also the fat kid growing up.
I would suggest to make sure your teeth are clean and you do not smell. Try to smell nice, actually. A woman's nose is pretty sensitive! Look nice but not too over dressed, and DO NOT say anything negative about other women. I had one man comment on all the "fat" women in the restaurant. It was a HUGE turn off. And compliment her sincerely.