It seems bad because the girl will lose interest and go for a guy who doesn't text as much.
But when the two get together, the girl is annoyed when her boyfriend doesn't text her enough.
Does this seem backwards to anyone else?
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It's a mystery alright... The whole etiquette surrounding text messaging is pretty baffling - you have to be careful about texting too often, too rarely, or too soon after getting their number; you have to say the right thing, and include the right smiley faces, and the right number of Xs & Os, etc - and it all has to be appropriate for your level of perceived closeness.
To be honest I've given up trying to make sense of it, and just text whatever and whenever I feel like it (or better yet, actually *talk* to people).0