So I would describe myself as mostly optimistic. I like to think the best of people, and as such, I can be a bit naive. Naive to the point where I dated this one guy who was a habitual liar. I only found out about his lies at the end... I believed him entirely the entire time. It shattered my perception of the goodness of people. Now, I have trouble believing in anything anyone says, knowing that essentially a year of my life was a lie :/
Anyone have a similar depressing story?
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Yes. I fell in love with someone who was not only immature emotionally but mentally as well. Everything was all fun and games to her. She used me as a rebound but hid the fact really well by showering me with lots of affection and empty promises. One day a few days after my birthday, she dropped me, just like that. No warning whatsoever. A year later, despite being with someone else, she comes and kisses me drunk at a party- leading to the destruction of her relationship. You know what she had the cheek to do? Come back to me and expect me to be there for her... to be her rebound again. And what do you know, once again she leaves and goes back to the guy once he has forgiven her. It's happened again this year. The guy lies to her, they break up, and she starts flirting with me. It's been an emotional rollercoaster with her but I'm finally done. I was weak and broken and that's why I let her use me like that but now I've grown stronger from these experiences and I'm 200% done with her and her bs.0