He sent me two texts in one day after 3 weeks of no contact. The last time we spoke I told him I'd appreciate it if he didn't contact me from now on so I was surprised when I saw a text from him.
His first text asked how I was. I didn't reply. A few hours later he sent another text saying 'I'm just trying to be me here. Not anything horrible. Anyway, I hope life is treating you well.'
I broke up with him because I felt I was the one always putting effort into the relationship. He was always distant towards the end and it hurt too much to stay with him.
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Maybe he gave you time to think about things and getting over the relationship and he wants to be friends? Maybe he wants you back. Maybe he...God, honey, only he knows ;)
So if you wanna be friends with him and you want him in your life, text back. If not, he's a waste of effort. If you text him back, you'll find out his motives in a while.0