This happens to me all. the. time. It never fails. I'll be talking to a guy and then the same pattern keeps happening. Hangout or dates will be canceled or I just won't hear from him, so I'll have to assume it's canceled. Text messages will be answered a day later. Then I just assume they're not interested so I delete their number so I won't be tempted to contact them. This has happened so much that I'm pretty good with telling when a guy grows distant immediately. Yea I tried the "Let them chase me" thing. It doesn't work.
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Do you keep talking and talking and talking and talking, and only about yourself? Get them to talk about themselves more and resist the urge to talk. Ask them questions like what do they like to do for fun, and then have them describe it. Vacations? Where they are originally from? People like to talk about themselves... Be more like a playfull puppy that everyone wants to be around...1