I’m currently seeing this guy, and we've been on a few dates now. The first date, I was okay with him paying for me, but since then he’s been insisting on paying for me on every date we've been on. I've offered to pay for myself and even had to beat him in pool to be able to treat him to coffee. I feel guilty whenever he pays for me, because I’d rather him spend money on more important things, since we’re both college students and have lots of expenses. I also don’t want to feel like I’m taking advantage of him. Is there any way I can convince him to go dutch or at least stop him from spending so much money?
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Well, you can be quicker next time and grab the check first lol. Try talking to him, tell him you know he's chivalrous already, you've been on a few dates, and it would make you feel good to be able to treat him too, once in a while.
In the mean time, don't feel guilty, he's choosing to do this of his own volition.1